This article includes links to legitimate organizations that are taking donations to help Hurricane Harvey victims.
I'd add this one to the list: http://www.preemptivelove.org/
This week on #ThrivingThursday, I shared a quick 6-minute lesson on pairing. Pairing is what it sounds like- pairing two things together. In this case, we intentionally and repeatedly pair something that is reinforcing with something our kids aren't a fan of. Over time, the reinforcing properties of the fun thing will transfer on to the un-fun thing.
Read about pairing here- an older post of mine- and www.iloveaba.com/2013/05/pairing.htmlhere- from the I Love ABA blog.
Consistency is key. Let me say that again. CONSISTENCY IS KEY! We can implement research based behavior supports here and there, but if we aren't consistent- do we really expect a miracle?
CONSISTENCY IS KEY! (I'll stop shouting now. I think you get the point.)
Thriving Thursday 1.3 of the Dr. Kim Live Show on ustream now.
This article was originally published on bSci21.org on August 15, 2016, written by Leanne Page, BCBA.
“I’d really like to work with my son on pre-K and kindergarten skills before school starts back up, but whenever I get out the flashcards or workbooks, I cannot get him to sit still at the table with me. Please help!”
While I applaud your aspirations to teach academic skills at home I’m not going to directly answer your request. I’m so helpful. I know.
How about instead of working on ways to get your son to sit and do traditional academic tasks, let’s focus on more creative ways to teach your son these same pre-academic skills.
In ABA, we often use a technique called Natural Environment Training (or NET). This means that we teach using the things in the child’s natural environment- throughout the day- using toys and play as teaching tools. In a rich environment, your child will choose what they want to play with. Follow their lead and use these toys and activities to teach a skill.
By letting your son choose what he wants to play with, you can use his own motivation to drive learning instead of trying to convince him to sit still at the table and do an activity (ahem, workbooks) that is not at all motivating to him.
You may be thinking, “She wants me to just play with my son. How does that teach him these academic skills I’m wanting to work on?”
You can use all kinds of toys and games to teach academic skills, classroom appropriate behaviors, and social skills to get ready for back-to-school time.
Let’s look at some ideas and examples:
The list of examples can go on and on and on. The big picture idea here is to find creative ways in your child’s natural environment to teach the skills you are wanting to work on. Your son isn’t motivated to sit at the table and do flash cards. In the summer. No big surprise there, huh? Use the things that he IS motivated by and practice all those academic and pre-academic and social skills.
Your child wants to play. You want them to practice specific skills before school starts. Marry those two things. Teach through play. Once you get into it, it’ll be more fun for both of you!
Spend some time watching your child play and think about his favorite toys. Be intentional about what you can teach with these toys or activities he’s already in to. Take a little time to make a mental plan and then get in there and play with your child!
Make sure you don’t turn all fun activities into a question and answer period where your son feels like he’s just being drilled. Intersperse those questions, prompts, and teaching opportunities during his natural play. Don’t take over the play and turn it into and un-fun flash card time. Continue to follow his lead, play with him, and throw in those learning opportunities as you go!
When did "Surviving Motherhood" become cool? When did being a frazzled parent become something to brag about?
I'd prefer to THRIVE during this season of life. I want to enjoy having tiny humans and luckily I know that behavior analysis can make that a reality.
Dr. Kim LIVE & I started a new series of short videos to help parents access behavioral tools to make life easier- Thriving Thursdays! Enjoy episode 1 and tune in next Thursday live!
Episode 1.1- Token Economies for parents! (My personal fave)
Leanne Page, MEd, BCBA